1. Babe, I don’t even know this woman who keeps calling me on my cellphone
When he says that he met this woman in a party and then never had a conversation with her, but she keeps on calling him on his cellphone. This is his friend with benefits, he may have been seeing her for long but he is not going to tell this to you, it’s on you now, go and find out the truth. After all, you are a woman and you are not calling a stranger regularly.
2. Sure, I’ll still respect you if we sleep together on the firstdate
Once a guy is turned on and wants to have sex with you then he would say almost anything to get in your pants. If you enjoy one night stands and don’t regret it later then you can sleep with him on the first date but if you want him to call you again, then believe me, wait for the some more time. After all, its not about you respected by him but you respecting yourself after having sex with him.
3. I’m leaving her for you, we’ll marry soon.
When you are in a relationship with this already committed guy then there are more chances of him seeing you only as a booty call. These men sometimes feel that their lives or career would get unstable if they’ll marry you, so they only keep on postponing the marriage proposal for years and even tend to keep your relationship a secret.
4. Baby, I didn’t text even once from last Sunday because I was dealing with some stuff.”
‘Okay, what kind of stuff you were dealing with that you don’t even have a minute to text? Aliens!’ Well you already know the answer again, this guy is playing with your emotions and is trying to fade out of your life without explaining anything to you. He may have got two or three other women on his side and was misleading you as the only woman.
5. You’re too good for me
These are the words definitely to break-up with you without becoming a jerk. He does not want to break up your spirit, but wants you away. According to the professionals, this line works for some women, but generally makes them crave for the guy even more.
6. Of course sex wasn’t the only thing on my mind when I first met you. I am not that shallow
When a man says that sex is not on his mind even then it is. If not, then what about planning for lunch during the day hours! For a man if a woman becomes an interest more than an acquaintance then he only wants to involve sexually with you, now or later. You can try telling him that you want to remain virgin until marriage and can notice his behavior towards you in the next few weeks.
7. I know it’s late, we need not to do anything; I only want to lay down here with you.
When he says that he’s not trying to get in your pants then actually he is. This above statement is just to make you feel comfortable. When a man wants to talk then he would just talk, he will ask you for coffee or would invite you for lunch, but when he makes it clear that he just wants to lay down with you, then he’s surely planning to make a sexual move. You actually know it but just go with the flow, don’t ever feel pressurized.
8. I love visiting your family.
He had met your family for more than ten times and says would love to visit them again. That is only because he knows that you love them and you want to stay close to them, but after meeting your mother who would extra pamper him or would criticize his career choice and your dear father who would be teasing him for supporting the ever losing IPL team, he is not actually comfortable seeing them again.
9. It’s my boss wanting me to work on weekends and I will get late tonight…it won’t last too long, I promise”.
After dating this guy for more than a year, you almost know his working schedule, but now it suddenly changes, which is almost unpredictable. He may be a real hardworking person but there are fifty percent chances of him cheating on you with some other women, because his job does not require him to work on Friday nights or Saturdays. So, better keep an eye on him.
10. I was staring at her shorts because I think you have the same ones.
When you are in some public area and catch your man staring at some other girl’s legs or butt, to which he suddenly makes the above excuse. Start looking at the girl and tell him that she’s good looking and carrying the outfit really well, to which he would surely agree. Now, you’ve caught your cat and Boom! ‘Honey, you’re dead, because I don’t have those shorts’.